Jing-Mei's mother clearly abandoned her babies because she
felt she had no other choice. She may not have survived the journey, and even if she
did, how would she care for them? She likely hoped they would be picked up and cared for
by someone who could afford to feed them and give them a life that is not one of
suffering and mysery.
Jing-Mei struggles with her identity
especially knowing that her two sisters survived, because her mother always pushed her
to be the best she could be despite her resistance. By resisting every suggestion of her
mother, Jing-Mei made her only daughter "disappointing" and felt sad because perhaps her
mother had wished for her other two daughters in exchange for Jing-Mei. She feels that
perhaps her mother would have rather had two good, chinese daughters than Jing-Mei, and
feels that her mother may have regretted the decision to leave them behind throughout
her life. Jing-Mei also feels a struggle between being Chinese and being American; she
never felt Chinese enough for her mother. Visiting China helped to resolve some of
Jing-Mei's cultural issues because she realized that China has changed since her mother
left it.
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